The things we choose to hide — or embrace — can ultimately define who we are.
Pain can make us selfish, while truly becoming oneself has the potential to make us selfless in ways we never imagined.
In this deeply personal talk, UPS pilot Kelly Lepley considers how the things we choose to hide – or embrace – can ultimately define who we are.
With a steadfast commitment to a single path that is rarely seen, Kelly Lepley has grown from pointing at pictures of airplanes in every book she could find to flying one of the largest cargo planes that UPS holds.
In stark contrast, her personal life follows a complex and twisting path.
Riddled with the shadows of deception and self-doubt, she is familiar with the painful stops, starts, and questions that come with becoming who you are.
With immense love for her two daughters who she adopted from China, Kelly Lepley profoundly understands the complexity of chasing the longings that consume us.
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Q&A with Kelly Lepley
1. As a kid, what did you want to be when you grew up?
An airline pilot.
2. What was your first job?
Sorting bottles and cans for recycling.
3. Where do you get your best thinking done?
On the beach.
4. What’s your favorite TED Talk?
Sherly Sandberg. “Why we have too few women leaders.”
5. Favorite quote?
Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.” -Steve Jobs
6. What book are you reading right now?
“Follow Your Heart to Discover Your Life Purpose,” Kelly MacLellan
7. Living or dead, who would you invite to dinner?
Lady Di for her love of people who were less fortunate.
8. What cause are you most passionate about?
9. What’s the best career advice you ever received?
“What you dare to dream, dare to do.”
10. Proudest accomplishment?
Adopting my daughters.
11. Last weekend on earth – where would you go?
“ 10 years from now, I see myself spending time in third world countries empowering young women.”
Spending more time in third world countries empowering young women.
13. What is the best gift you have ever received?
14. Who would play you in a movie of your life?
15. Favorite activity after work
Showing my daughters the world.
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